>Getting the Woman of Your Dreams
Nishant Baxi
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Getting the Woman of Your Dreams
Nishant Baxi
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Table of Contents
GETTING THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS
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A F EMALE A TTRACTION H ANDBOOK FOR S HY M EN 1
INTRODUCTION
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CHAPTER 1
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A TTRACTING W OMEN 5
Getting Started
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Women 101
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Look at Yourself – Know Your Attributes
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Are You Your Own Best Friend or Enemy?
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Positive Reconstruction of Negative Self-Talk
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CHAPTER 2
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T IPS FOR S UCCESS W HEN M EETING W OMEN 13
Building Your Self Confidence
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Focus on Positive Affirmations
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Creating Useful Positive Affirmations
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Positive Affirmations: What They Are & What They Aren’t
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What You Say & How You Say It
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Step I: The Greeting
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Step II: The Conversation
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Step III: Take Action
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Suggested Tips for Making this Easier
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CHAPTER 3
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B ODY L ANGUAGE: H OW
TO T ELL I F S HE’ S I NTERESTED 27
Why is Body Language Important
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It’s
in the Eyes
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Her Hands (and Feet!) are Telling you Something
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What’s the Posture?
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Conclusion
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Legal Notice
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Introduction
There is a ton of information available online regarding dating. This does not mean that all guides and books are created equally. Each book has a different
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approach about how to best attract members of the opposite sex. They cover everything from what to wear, to how to talk, to specific pick-up lines to use. Many are borderline offensive, are more likely get you slapped than a date with a woman.
Regardless of what spin these online manuals and guides take, they usually have one thing in common. They typically spend a lot of time on self-confidence. Believing in your self is essential to attracting a woman. How can you get someone else to think you’re great, if you don’t think you’re great?
The cheesy pick-up lines, hidden tricks, and special secrets that many guides promise usually don’t work. Without the self-confidence to look a woman in the eyes and communicate with her, you won’t have much success in the dating department.
Some men get really stressed out about picking up a woman, and anxiety about it is common and normal. However, sometimes it goes a step further to the point of a panic attack. Do you have any of the following symptoms of a panic disorder?
Rapid heartbeat
Nausea
Stammering when talking
Fear of rejection
Clammy hands
Inability to maintain a logical dialogue
Flustered feeling
Going blank
Shakiness
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If you have any of the aforementioned symptoms, you can benefit from this book. Not only will we cover the best ways to build up your dating self-confidence, but you will also learn the key tips to success with women. You’ll also learn about the type of man that attracts women mentally, no matter what you look like.
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Chapter 1
Attracting Women
Getting Started
Successful dating techniques are usually not something you are just born knowing. It takes work to be able to pick up the woman of your dreams. So you carefully pay attention to what works and what doesn’t, tweaking your own style and technique until you find a method that works best for you. You see what other people do and mimic that which feels most natural. You get feedback from women – both solicited and unsolicited – about what you are doing right and wrong.
All of these learning techniques are helpful and essential to your success. However, if you are still experiencing difficulty with women, this guide will help you succeed in dating, overcome your shyness, and gain the lifestyle that you long for.
Women 101
What makes a woman tick? You’ve probably asked yourself this a hundred times.
The fact is that women and men are essentially the same, with a few exceptions.
First, think about your non-romantic female relationships. Do you have female friends and acquaintances? What do you talk about? How to you interact? The women you are trying to date are probably fundamentally very similar to these women. For example, do you have a great friendship with a woman? What parts of that can you pull from to help you with meeting someone new?
Men and women have many of the same desired outcomes from dating. Many are looking for someone who is fun and who they enjoy spending time with. They
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are