didn’t let me answer. He patted my hand and said, “No matter. What a stupid and shallow question, right? As if you’d even remember. My high school social life is certainly a blur.”
He poured himself a second bowl of cereal and filled it to the rim with milk. “The guy who calls here? Is he a friend?”
“I had dinner with him once.”
“And?”
“And he’d like to do it again.”
“Have you called him back?”
I said no.
“No, permanently, or no, not yet?” he asked.
“He’s not my type,” I said.
Leo offered no rebuttal, but I knew what he was thinking: How could Alice Thrift, workaholic wallflower, have collected any data or constructed a model on something as theoretical as her type?
THIS IS WHAT we imagined: Nurses and surgical residents conversing in civilian garb. RNs impressing MDs with their previously underappreciated level of science and scholarship. Exhausted doctors sipping beer while sympathetic nurses circulated with pinwheel sandwiches. Doctors asking nurses if they could compare schedules and find free Saturday nights in common.
When every nurse accepted our invitation and every resident declined, Leo and I had to scramble to provide something close to even numbers. I volunteered to call my medical school classmates who were interning in Boston—there were two at Children’s, some half dozen at MGH, a couple more at Tufts, at BU …
“Friends?” he asked.
“Classmates,” I repeated.
I know what was on his mind: my unpopularity. That the words party and Alice Thrift were oxymoronic, and now Leo was experiencing it firsthand. I said, “Let’s face it: I have no marquee value. My name on the invitation doesn’t get one single warm body here, especially of the Y-chromosome variety.”
“We’re going to work on that,” said Leo.
“On the other hand, since I’m not known as a party thrower, my invitees will expect a very low level of merriment.”
Leo said, “Cut that out. It’s not your fault. We’re aiming too high. Interns are exhausted. If they have a night off, they want to sleep.”
I said, “That’s not true of the average man, from what I’ve read.”
“And what is that?” Leo asked.
“I’ve heard that men will go forth into groups of women, even strangers, if they think there’s a potential for sexual payoff.”
“What planet are you living on?” Leo asked. “Why do you sound like an anthropologist when we’re just bullshitting about how to balance our guest list?”
We were having this conversation in the cafeteria, Leo seated, me standing, since I usually grabbed a sandwich to go. He didn’t think I ate properly, so after he’d rattled a chair a few times, I sat down on it.
“If I called my single brothers, not counting Peter,” he said, “and they each brought two friends, that would be six more guys.”
“Is Peter the priest?”
“No, Joseph’s the priest. Peter doesn’t like women.”
“Okay. Six is a start.”
I unwrapped my cheese sandwich, and squeezed open the spout on my milk carton. “I know someone,” I finally said.
“Eligible?”
I nodded. So eligible, I thought, that he was pursuing Alice Thrift. “Not young, though. Forty-five. And widowed.”
“Call him. Forty-five’s not bad. Maybe he could bring some friends.”
I said, “Actually, he’s the one leaving those messages.”
“He’s been crooning Sinatra on the latest ones,” said Leo. “What’s that about?”
“Trying to get my attention.” I took a bite of my sandwich.
Leo said, “No lettuce, no ham, no tomato?”
I pointed out that I never knew how long lunch would languish in my pocket before consumption, so this was the safest thing to take away.
Leo paused to consult our list of women. Finally he said, “I see a few of my colleagues who would be very happy with a forty-five-year-old guy. And even more who would pounce on the widower part. How long ago did he lose his wife?”
“A year and a day.” I looked at my watch’s date. “As of now, a year and two weeks.”
“Call him. Tell him you and your roommate are putting together a soiree of hardworking primary-care nurses, who—studies have shown—sometimes go out on the town looking for a sexual payoff just like the males of the species.”
I said, “I wasn’t born yesterday. I know people have sexual relations on a casual basis.”
Leo studied me for a few seconds, as if there was a social/epidemiological question he wanted to ask.
I said, “I’ve had relations, if that’s what your retreat into deep thought is about.”
“I see,” said Leo.
“In college. Actually, the summer between my junior and senior years. I was a camp counselor and the boys’ camp was across the lake.”
“And was he a counselor, too?”
“An astronomy major at MIT, or so I believed. He knew all the constellations.”
“Sounds romantic,” said Leo.
I said, “Actually not. I had wondered what all the fuss was about, so I decided to experience it for myself.”
“And?”
I swallowed a sip of milk and blotted my mouth. “Not worth the discomfort or the embarrassment or the trip into town for the prophylactics. And to make it worse, he expected follow-up.”
“Meaning?”
“That we’d do it again.”
“What a cad,” said Leo.
“I found out later he wasn’t an astronomy major at all, but studying aerospace engineering. And in a fraternity.”
“Did you ever see him again?
I said no, never.
“So that would be … like five years ago?”
I shrugged. After a pause, I wrapped the remains of my sandwich in plastic and put it in my jacket pocket.
“Not that it’s any of my business,” said Leo.
I said I had to run. Would catch him later—I had the night off so I’d do some vacuuming.
“Alice?” he called when I was a few paces from him. I returned to the table.
“I want to say, just for the record, as a fellow clinician, that the fuss you’ve heard about? With respect to relations? The stuff that, according to movies and books, supposedly makes the earth move and the world go round? Well—and I say this as your friend—it does.”
I didn’t have an answer; wasn’t sure whether his statement was confessional or prescriptive.
“What I’m getting at,” he continued, “is that you might want to give it another shot someday.”
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