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      Здесь и далее всякий раз, когда я буду цитировать труды ученых, ссылку на источник вы сможете найти в конце книги. Все ссылки и примечания пронумерованы отдельно для каждой главы.

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      Kim, H., & Markus, H. R. (1999). Deviance or uniqueness, harmony or conformity? A cultural analysis. Journal of personality and social psychology, 77 (4), 785.

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