Как люди убеждают. Влияние слова в переговорах, беседах и спорах. Йона Бергер

меньше. Авторы предположили, что «подобные формулировки могут привести к нежелательным последствиям, если у ребенка есть основания сомневаться, что он подходит для этой категории (например, после сообщений о неудачах ученых, ставших поводом для формирования стереотипов); в этом случае ребенок может перестать рассматривать науку как сферу, где он проявит свои лучшие качества личности». Подробнее см. в: Marjorie Rhodes et al. Subtle Linguistic Cues Increase Girls’ Engagement in Science // Psychological Science. 2019. 30, № 3. Р. 455–466. URL: https://doi.org/10.1177/0956797618823670.

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      Christopher J. Bryan, Gabrielle S. Adams, Benoit Monin. When Cheating Would Make You a Cheater: Implicating the Self Prevents Unethical Behavio // Journal of Experimental Psychology. 2013. General 142, № 4. P. 1001. URL: https://doi.org/10.1037/a0030655.

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      Vanessa M. Patrick, Henrik Hagtvedt. “I don’t” Versus “I can’t”: When Empowered Refusal Motivates Goal-Directed Behavior // Journal of Consumer Research. 2012. 39, № 2. Р. 371–81. URL: https://doi.org/10.1086/663212. Также см. книгу: Vanessa Patrick. The Power of Saying No: The New Science of How to Say No that Puts You in Charge of Your Life.

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