Learn to be happy! Confidence and Success. Narsha Bulgakbaev

be afraid of yourself, no matter how bad the thought or word is, because you have to rise above it.

      The only way to change your destiny is to change your habitual way of thinking. What do you often think about? At the right time, we take on great responsibility. We must always remember that our thoughts and words can affect the world we live in, either creatively or destructively. Do you constantly say, «I can’t take it anymore, I’m sick, I don’t have enough money, I’m so tired»? So, you are giving up your strength, health and prosperity in this way.

      Don’t give up the happiness that belongs to you because of laziness.

      Jealousy, anger, narrow-mindedness, hypocrisy, pride (etc.) and thoughts and emotions filled with sadness and grief and fear will cause your body to respond with disorder and disease.

      Use the tools of imagination wisely and say to yourself: «I can endure every hardship of life, I fear no disease, I always have enough money, I do not tire and I have unlimited energy, I am in good and right relations with all people and myself.» You pave the way for health, happiness and prosperity. If you are an open and kind person, if you are loyal and caring towards your loved ones, then you will soon know that you are in the «Kingdom of Goodness». Every good thing you do to yourself, to others, life will return to you a hundredfold.

«ME» OR «WE»?

      Have you ever wondered about the weight of the letters of the alphabet? Did you know that letters have weight? For example, what is the weight of the uppercase letter «I» compared to the lowercase letter «I»? In the first case, a person is speaking without confidence, in the second case, a person is speaking too confidently. Sometimes the difference in weight is like the difference between earth and sky. Examples for you: the «I» of a famous star is not the same as the «I» of a person who no one knows, who picks up garbage. Similarly, rich and poor, healthy and sick, etc.

      I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but English is the only one of all European languages that capitalizes «I» in the middle of a sentence. they put a lot of emphasis on the word «I» when they speak. sometimes we give too much weight to this word in our life, but it prevents us from living properly. the weight of our self often limits our horizons instead of expanding our minds. I think you know what I mean. Someone sits in a restaurant and first complains, then angrily warns and scolds: «I’m so tired. I shopped for two hours. Where did this waiter disappear to? Otherwise, I will go and eat elsewhere.» My point is: the waiter has been working on his feet for more than two hours, maybe he should be a little more understanding and wait without getting angry or fighting. If visitors ask the waiter: «How do you handle so many tables at the same time and even in such bad weather?»

      Have you ever noticed how we start to resist when someone’s «I» weight is bigger than ours?