Рил Терренс

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      Примечания

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      Здесь и далее нумерованной сноской обозначены фразы, пояснения к которым даны автором в приложении. – Прим. перев.

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      Relational Life Therapy, RLT – терапевтический подход к работе с парами, разработанный Терренсом Рилом. – Прим. ред.

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      Миндалевидное тело, или амигдала, – два симметричных участка головного мозга, играющие ключевую роль в формировании эмоций. – Прим. научн. ред.

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      Рене Шпиц ввел также понятие, описывающее данное явление, – «синдром госпитализма». – Прим. научн. ред.

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      «Теория Социальной Базы», авторы Lane Beckes, James A. Coan – Прим. научн. ред.

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