Повернись к себе. Как наполниться нежностью и смыслом. Сара Кубурик

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      Сёрен Кьеркегор (1813–1855) – датский философ, работы которого чаще всего посвящены вопросам о смысле человеческого существования. Прим. ред.

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      Может произойти совсем незаметно, как будто ничего не произошло: Søren Kierkegaard, “C. The Forms of Sickness (Despair),” in The Sickness unto Death: A Christian Psychological Exposition for Edification and Awakening by Anti-Climacus. Translated by Alastair Hannay. London: Penguin Books (2004).

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      Внутреннее согласие: см.: Alfried Längle, “Existential Fundamental Motivation.” Статья представлена на 18-м Мировом конгрессе психотерапии в Тронхейме, Норвегия (2002); Alfried Längle, “The Art of Involving the Person – Fundamental Motivations as the Structure of the Motivational Process,” European Psychotherapy 4:1 (2003), 47–58; Alfried Längle, “The Search for Meaning in Life and the Fundamental Existential Motivations,” Psychotherapy in Australia, 10:1 (2003), 22–27.

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