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Боуэн (1913–1990) – американский психотерапевт, один из родоначальников семейной терапии, создатель теории семейных систем. – Примеч. ред.

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      Мэрилин Мюррей (р. 1936) – американский психотерапевт, признанный специалист в вопросах терапии травм, насилия и их последствий, автор собственного метода, который успешно используется для лечения людей, перенесших физическое и эмоциональное насилие, испытавших пренебрежение со стороны своих близких, а также находящихся в состоянии зависимости и созависимости. В течение шести лет проводила бесплатные консультации с заключенными насильниками в Аризоне, несмотря на то что в детстве сама подверглась сексуальному насилию. Имеет большой интерес к России, так как ее бабушка и дедушка по отцовской линии родились и выросли под Саратовом. С 2002 года приезжает в Москву и преподает свой метод психотерапевтам. – Примеч. ред.

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