Искусство жить. Человек в зеркале психотерапии. Виктор Каган

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      Дело не в том, кто – врач или психолог – осуществляет помощь, а в том, какими принципами он руководствуется, как строит помощь. Чтобы не мучить читателя громоздкими словесными конструкциями и повторяющимися пояснениями, хочу сразу обратить его внимание на то, что слова «психотерапевт» и «психолог» в этой книге обозначают специалиста, проводящего немедицинскую психотерапию. (Здесь и далее, кроме специально оговоренных случаев, подстрочные примечания принадлежат автору книги.)

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