am often asked by families I work with about the risk of in-laws or others being gold-diggers, more interested in the wealth of the family than they should be. This is not a difficult evaluation to make, and my answer is always ‘Of course your son-in-law or daughter-in-law is a gold-digger!’ This is not because everyone is evil – but because money comes into every relationship – if not at the start of the relationship, at some point in future. I always advise families to hope for the best, but plan for the worst.”
On Mistresses and Toy-Boys
“Mistresses are not an Asian concept. They are a global concept. Mistresses, toy-boys and other relationships all too often move into situations of blackmail, and there are approaches that wealth owners falling into common traps can employ to manage things effectively. One golden rule is to never give a mistress a lump sum of money – before long, she is back for more – why not use a trust or annuity that is designed to make payments over her lifetime, but conditioned on her keeping things quiet?”
On Divorce
“In the case of divorce, community property, co-habitation, and otherwise, it is easy to say that the rights of the spouse or other party are there because they need to be protected. And this is often the case, and why laws are in place to provide this protection. But for a wealth-owning family, and particularly where wealth is at the higher level, it is critical to understand how laws designed to protect a spouse can be abused to provide a spouse with rights to family businesses and wealth that by no stretch of the imagination should they have access to. And with lawyers charging on contingency, getting paid on the success of their efforts, is it fair that family wealth falls into the hands of those who fuel the flames of marital disputes?”
On Second (and Subsequent) Marriages
“Second and further marriages often cause more issues within families than the wealth owner establishing the new relationship thinks. The wealth owner often ends up in a difficult situation that jeopardizes not only the well-being of his children, but also the chances of success in his new relationship. As a believer that money comes into the picture in every relationship (because everyone is a gold-digger, at least to some extent), recognizing this is a first step toward finding approaches to help the process not be a destructive one.”
On the Need for Women to Understand their Rights and Financial Position
“There is one very important reality about women and wealth. The chances are that they will end up with the money, one way or another – so they had better know where it is and how to deal with it. Women live longer than men, and in a marriage, it is likely that they will outlive their husband. And if the marriage fails, which many do, the wife will and should end up with something – so everyone needs to be prepared, and all too often, women are not.”
On Who You can Trust
“Trust no one. This is not because no one can be trusted, but because the safest approach is to ensure that the right checks and balances are in place to deal with the reality that everybody has conflicts of interests. And for trustees, bankers and others, there is no client better than a dead client – dead clients do not complain about fees and do not fire you. Key is to ensure that those who succeed to your assets are able to properly keep an eye on trustees and others and remove and replace them when necessary.”
On Family Business Succession
“Families that manage to keep their businesses intact over the generations tend to be families that are flexible in their understanding that it is inevitable that not everyone in the younger generation will see things the same way. Allowing for the likelihood that there will be family members who will not want to participate in and support the family business, and having clear procedures for how to buy out their interests and at what price has been a key way successful families have managed to keep businesses in family hands over the generations. Having the ability to ‘prune’ the family tree can be critical to the long term success of a family business.”
On Tax Advantaged Investing
“There are many facets to tax advantaged investing, but in the simplest terms, to invest on a tax advantaged basis means focusing on the after tax and not the pre-tax return on an investment. It is very easy to get into an investment, but often not enough attention is paid to the question of how one will exit from the investment, and what the tax consequences of this might be.”
On Taxation
“In a world where disparities of wealth are increasingly at the forefront of the political and social agenda, is ‘hiding the money’ either an option or the right thing to do? Advisors and wealth owning families have to change their ways, and in many cases, the ways of the past were not something to be proud of.”
“[T]he only certainty in the tax world is that the laws will change, and constantly do. The wealth owning family does not need to become expert in the tax laws of every country that affects them and their investments. Rather, the wealth owning family needs to be able to understand the advice they receive and be able to challenge that advice, and ask the right questions. Being aware of how tax systems work can help families stay in control of the succession and asset protection planning put in place for their families.”
On the Move to Tax Transparency and Automatic Information Exchange
“Is transparency in the tax world a rocky road that will create a new kind of refugee problem and a drain of capital and entrepreneurship from countries most in need? I worry that many developing countries are simply not ready for automatic information exchange. Politically motivated use of tax information, corruption, leakage of tax information to kidnappers and more will lead to entrepreneurs desperately needed by their economies realizing that they only have two choices – play by the rules or get out. And to play by the rules does not work if the tax system does not adequately protect taxpayer interests – so getting out will be the only choice. Who will replace the lost jobs and revenues of the developing countries involved?”
On Mobility
“Play by the rules or get out. These are the only choices wealth owners have – the third choice of staying connected to a country by residence, domicile, citizenship or otherwise and hoping that no one will find out is simply not an option in a world of growing transparency and where tax laws are increasingly and more aggressively enforced. Tax laws are laws, and there is no choice but for compliance with them.”
“One simple guideline on mobility planning is that the best time to consider leaving a country is before that country begins to impose an exit tax. As the world moves to greater tax transparency and tax laws are enforced more vigorously, it is likely that more wealth owners will be using mobility as part of their planning, attracting more high tax countries to consider barriers to mobility, including exit taxes and tougher rules in relation to the question of who is and who is not a tax resident, particularly among those who were previously taxable residents of the country.”
On Tax Planning, Tax Avoidance and Tax Evasion
“As a tax lawyer, my job has been to work with wealth owners and to help them legally plan their affairs such as to minimize tax exposures. But how far should one go to pay the least amount of tax possible? Is it an ethical obligation of wealth owners to pay headline rates of tax to help address wealth and income inequality and to not take steps to reduce tax exposures? Where is the line between legal tax planning and illegal tax evasion…and what of tax avoidance, something that used to be considered legal and appropriate, but which is increasingly condemned by tax authorities and others?”
On Political Risk
“[T]here are many risks that a wealth owner is subject to that can fall under the heading of ‘political’ risk, including changes in the tax landscape, perhaps in part as a result of a new focus on income and wealth inequality… Addressing political risk will be an increasing need of wealth owning families worldwide. The current focus on income and wealth inequality, increasing populism in the political sphere and the difficult financial position of many countries is increasing risk, and not only in parts of the world one normally thinks of as unstable.”
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