Валентина Москаленко

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СПб.: Наука, 1994. Гл. 17.

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      В. Москаленко «Возвращение к жизни. Как спасти семью: конфликты, ссоры, алкоголизм, наркомания». – М.: Никея, 2017

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      Приведенный опросник составлен на основе данных, содержащихся в книге известного американского психотерапевта Дженет Войтиц (Janet Woititz) «Борьба за интимность». Woititz Janet. The Intimacy Struggle. -N.Y.: Health Communications, Inc.– 1993, 101 p. Считаю большим везением, улыбкой судьбы то обстоятельство, что мне довелось учиться у Дженет Войтиц в Ратгеровском университете (США), где я постигала науку о том, как помогать людям в налаживании межличностных отношений.

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      Вербализованный – выраженный словами (от verbum – лат. «слово»)

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