Monday 22 January I will go to the gym and exercise for one hour’ or ‘By this time next year I will have doubled my salary.’
‘Don’t just think it, ink it!’
Write down your outcomes. Write down your affirmations. Write them on good-quality paper in your best handwriting and say them several times every day. They will keep them in your mind and you will start to see opportunities that you would never see otherwise.
When you achieve them, put them away safely under the heading of ‘Success Stories’ and whenever you feel your confidence waning, dig them out and enjoy the feeling of achievement again.
ACTION PLAN
1 Sit down and write at least 10 outcomes that you want to achieve in the next week.
2 Write down your outcomes every six months. Have at least two in each of the following groups:
List each one in as much detail as you wish. Keep this list where you can refer to it. At the end of six months, look over it and renew it for the next six months, replacing those outcomes that you have achieved with new ones. Write them out carefully or do them on a word processor. Your unconscious mind will not put any value on poorly written goals on a scrappy piece of paper. So write them out as if they are very important. They are.
Do them as if they could change your life. They will.
3 Write down three HUGGs.
4 Watch the film The Shawshank Redemption on video, even if you have seen it before. What was the key resource for the character played by Tim Robbins when he was in prison?
5 Listen for the times when you sell yourself short, boast about your failures or tell other people that you can’t do something. They might believe it. Do you? During the course of one day count how many times you hear other people trying to convince you that they are incapable of something. Do you believe them?
 | Learning is usually defined as acquiring knowledge, skills and abilities by study, experience or being taught. But that is the result. What about the process? How do we learn? |
Learning always involves self-development – learning to act differently, think differently and feel differently. Learning is natural. We learn all the time; it is part of adapting to changing circumstances. We do not always think of this as learning, however.
Learning is not the same as teaching and may have nothing to do with teaching. We may learn some things by being taught directly and other things in the process. For example, we may be taught different subjects in school and in the process may come to believe that we are not very good at learning, when in fact we are not very good at being taught. Many schools are not very good places to learn.
Learning is not the same as education either. Education describes the results of learning and is often tested by examinations. The origin of the word comes from the Latin educere, meaning ‘to draw out’. Education is about teachers drawing out students’ resources and abilities in line with the NLP presupposition ‘Everyone has all the resources they need already, or can acquire them’. This presupposition empowers both teacher and student.
You cannot have a teacher without a learner; teaching cannot exist as an activity by itself. It makes no sense to say, ‘I taught the subject but the students did not learn it.’ That is the educational equivalent of the medical joke ‘The operation was a success but the patient died.’ The teacher is also a learner, although they will learn something different from the person they are teaching.
Too often education is seen as the teacher pouring knowledge into the empty vessel – the student. This is not education, it is knowledge injection. This presupposition leaves the teacher literally ‘drained’ and the student feeling dependent and ‘knowledge bloated’. Examinations can create ‘educational bulimics’ – stuff it in quickly beforehand and then regurgitate it at the right time to clear space for the next binge.
| LEVELS OF LEARNING |  |
Traditional learning can be divided into four main stages:
This is the traditional learning path. I think there is one further step: