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      Winnicott D. W. Ego Distortion in Terms of True and False Self. The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment: Studies in the Theory of Emotional Development. New York: International Universities Press, 1965. P. 140–152.

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      Murray Bowen. Family Therapy in Clinical Practice. Northvale, NJ: Jason Aronson, 1985.

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      Robert Kegan. The Evolving Self: Problem and Process in Human Development. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1982.

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