Soul Windows....Secrets from the Divine. Susan Z Rich

always to remember is the soul chose their birth situation. Whatever emotions you are exposed to from the ages of 4 to 7 years of age will determine the belief system you will carry for the rest of your life. Whatever feeling definitions given to you for love, value, worth, judgment, and conditional behavior will shape all of your adult choices and sets the stage for addressing the soul’s issues. At this age, your parents are the closest thing to a God definition you will ever identify within its purest form. You will love them unconditionally. You carry these feeling definitions without question at the beginning of this Soul Window. The child before this first Soul Window will just want to be loved and have their needs met. Most of those energetic traits will have dissipated when a child moves into the so-called terrible twos and threes. A child does not have the ability to discern how to make loving and moral choices before the age of seven, so if they see abusive behavior by you, that will be ok for them too because you do it. When the first Soul Window opens and before the opportunity to make life choices, the child will be like a sponge. The child will be whatever they are shown to be, told to be or in whatever manner they are treated, regardless of whether it is seemingly bad or good. If you teach a child, they are of no value or worthless, the child will naturally assume there is something lacking in them. If you abuse a child, they will think they did something to deserve it. The child feels every emotion, action and behavior in black or white terms. They are without the adult gray area of reason surrounding any action. In their innocence, they are incapable of blaming someone else for their misfortune. This life cycle creates the belief foundations for the Inner Child’s guidance system of all your emotions and a subconscious program that will control responses for the rest of your life unless consciously changed. The first Soul Window will stay in place from approximately seven years to about 13 or 14 years of age. It is an age of emotional exploration and moves the child farther and farther away from maternal or paternal tethering. You can compare it to a puppy let out in the backyard for the first time…many, many adventures to be experienced in this new lifetime. The first few Soul Windows usually open very close together, getting farther apart as you get older with some rest periods in-between them.