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«Убей своих любимых, убей своих любимых…» (англ. kill your darlings). Фолкнер, обращаясь к молодым писателям, призывал их удалять из написанного текста дорогие сердцу писателя слова, фразы, образы и т. д., если они не встраиваются в общую структуру произведения или мешают выражению авторского замысла. Прим. пер.

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      L. Campbell and S. Moroz. Humour Use Between Spouses and Positive and Negative Interpersonal Behaviours During Conflict. Europe’s Journal of Psychology 10, no. 3 (2014): 532–542, https://doi.org/10.5964/ejop.v10i3.763.

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