understand how I came to be how I am.
Also, if I made a video, it wouldn’t be me they saw. And whoever’s life I borrowed would have to bear the stigma of my presence for the rest of their future.
So . . . definitely not an option.
I go back to the Truth Serum home page and see a button labeled Anonymous Truth. I click on it and Lorraine Hines appears.
“For many of us, the truth can only be said if there’s someone listening. But often the truth becomes harder if the person listening is someone we know. We here at Truth Serum want to provide a safe forum for you to share your truth with someone you don’t know. Just click the link below and you will be paired at random with a person who will witness your truth without judgment.”
I don’t know that I believe anyone can ever listen without judgment—but still I click on the link. There’s no risk that I can see. I will be elsewhere in the morning.
I am put in a chat box with someone who goes by the initials WL. I am reminded before WL comes into the chat that our conversation will be anonymous. I enter the initials AA.
I feel the skittish foolishness that comes from relying on my own anonymity, even though WL can’t see me, complicated by the fact that I already feel I’m hiding behind Whitney’s body.
WL: Hello. I am WL (not my real initials) and I will be your truth listener today. Please, tell me your truth.
I’m disappointed by how rote this is. I’m probably talking to some cut-rate artificial intelligence—artificial semi-intelligence. I almost log off. But then I decide, no, I might as well acknowledge my reaction, in the spirit of telling the truth.
AA: That seems abrupt. And vague.
I figure this is the part when it will become obvious if it’s a computer I’m talking to.
WL: It is. But that’s how this works.
AA: But what do you mean by “your truth”? Don’t we have many? I mean, I’m wearing a red shirt right now. That’s a truth.
WL: That isn’t the truth you came here to talk about, though, is it?
AA: No. It isn’t.
WL: So tell me that truth. The one that brought you here.
Why am I here? Maybe to be forced into this question. Because that’s the thing about my life—nobody asks me anything. And if nobody’s asking, it’s easy to keep all the answers on the shelf, gathering dust. I can forget they exist. I can avoid them.
The reason I’m here isn’t because of what happens to me every day. The reason I’m here is . . .
AA: I am in love with someone I can’t be with.
I exhale. It is an effort to admit this, even to a stranger. It is an effort to admit it to myself.
WL: Why not?
AA: Because she isn’t here.
WL: Where is she?
AA: 1500 miles away. I left her. I had to.
WL has no idea how old I am. WL has no idea what I look like. WL has no idea where I am.
In many ways, WL knows me better than anyone in front of me ever does.
WL: Why did you have to leave?
AA: Because there was no way for me to stay.
WL: Why?
AA: Because I have a condition that prevents me from being able to stay with her.
This is the closest I can come to explaining it. I know it isn’t entirely truthful. But even with WL, I have to draw a line. I can only trust so far. I can only expect understanding to a certain degree.
WL: A medical condition? A psychological condition?
Same thing, I want to tell WL.
AA: A medical condition.
But this doesn’t feel like the truth. I keep typing.
AA: No, that’s not right. It’s who I am. Neither medical nor psychological. Or even spiritual. It’s just . . . the way my life is.
WL: What about your life is preventing you from being with her?
AA: I just can’t be with her.
WL: Fear of commitment?
“No,” I say to the screen. It’s not fear of commitment. It’s a knowledge that commitment is impossible. I don’t fear it at all.
AA: No. I travel a lot. I mean, I have to travel a lot. There’s no way out of it.
WL: So you can’t be home for her?
AA: I would love to be. But I can’t.
WL: And have you talked this over with her?
AA: Yes.
WL: And she agrees that it cannot work?
Be truthful, I tell myself.
AA: I think so.
WL: You think so?
AA: She knows about my condition. I think she would try to love me anyway. But because I’m the one who’s lived with it my whole life, I know better than her that it will never work.
WL: Is that true?
AA: Yes. Of course it’s true.
WL: Are you sure? You are meant to be telling your truth here.
AA: I know that it’s true.
WL: “Know” is a strong word. You believe. You suspect. But can you really know?
Calmly, I type:
AA: By any rational measure, she and I cannot be together.
WL: What does your heart say?
AA: My heart wants it to be possible. But the universe isn’t governed by wants. Or even needs. Some things don’t work, no matter how much you want them to.
WL: That is not truth. That’s theory. What do you want?
AA: To be able to be with her.
It hurts to say that. Fool fool fool.
WL: What does she want?
AA: I don’t know. I’m not her.
WL: Why don’t you ask?
AA: Because she’s there, and I’m here, and it’s better for us not to torture one another.
WL: Did she tell you it’s better?
I didn’t give her a chance. I didn’t want it to be a prolonged argument. I didn’t want the ending to ruin everything that came before. I wanted to leave her in the arms of someone who might love her for who she is—and who could love her day after day.
AA: No. I left before she could.
WL: That is an interesting truth.
I feel my listener doesn’t like what they’re hearing. I try to trick myself into thinking that it’s WL’s disapproval I’m concerned with, and not the nagging disapproval in my own thoughts.