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Dinsdale, Bernard J. Crespi. "The Borderline Empathy Paradox: Evidence and Conceptual Models for Empathic Enhancements in Borderline Personality Disorder," Journal of Personality Disorders, April 2013;27(2):172–95. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23514182/.

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      Здесь речь идет об эмоциональном интеллекте (см. приложение). – Прим. науч. ред.

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      Маша Пушкина, Екатерина Тарасова. На грани: Как жить с пограничным расстройством личности // Батенька, да вы трансформер. – 2017. – 31 октября. https://batenka.ru/resource/med/bpd/.

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