16 | How seriously should you take yourself?
That is a good question,
and easily answered.
The seriousness of many people results from the friction
between their hopes and dreams
and their actual life.
“With seriousness and discipline I can achieve anything …”
But everything becomes difficult without a certain degree of ease.
The necessary space for this easiness and letting go
creates space for the divine accidents.
No pain, no gain, but take it with ease.
17 | Run out …
When you run out, you expire …
Destroyers of harmony follow a specific pattern …
They try to destroy the harmony of other people
and thus achieve their own sense of harmony;
in doing so, they follow a routine
and are even happy about the disharmony
they create in other people.
In this manner, they find a place to anchor themselves
and their right to exist.
All of that with an extremely low
and stupid hidden agenda,
driven by jealousy, perfidy and envy …
However,
if the harmony of the other person keeps growing,
they’re out of luck.
Love is the strongest power, and as such is harmony,
and the old routines do not work any longer … they run out
and break into smithereens.
What used to be but a smokescreen without substance,
has run out and has therefore expired.
PS: Sometimes it is a shame how much oxygen is being wasted on hot air …
18 | The true gentleman
You often find it in the genes,
the life of a true gentleman …
The respect and the love for the opposite sex
make their heart skip a beat …
The gentleman also treats himself with respect,
with appreciation …
The way a person speaks, he speaks to himself …
A true gentleman is good to himself and to others …
He exudes the self-resonance of politeness
and thus, fascinates the opposite sex …
He should just distance himself from the monster moms, the drama queens,
the egomaniacs, the real bimbos, the fiends,
those rotten defeatists, tense idiots, small minds,
and other envious disavowers …
they will never understand a gentleman …
they will be casting a shadow on themselves …
with all their bad vibrations of deficiency …
The true gentleman has realized that,
since he does not attract deficiency
and he therefore lives in opulence …
In the opulence of the good vibrations he exudes,
the vibrations of opulence …
The true gentleman fascinates the weaker sex with his good vibrations,
his generosity and his empathy,
his feelings and understanding of himself
and therefore of the world of dual love.
The true gentleman is blessed
since he can open the door for himself to a world that many crave …
true love wants to be treated politely, wants to be flattered …
felt by somebody who is in touch with himself …
The true gentleman automatically surfs in good vibrations,
the vibrations of opulence …
in the fascination of freedom
and unlimited independence …
… so, dear Gentlewoman, be prepared for the true Gentleman …
19 | God save the Queen and the King …
Often it is really good
not to get what one is really longing for;
the Dalai Lama was actually right.
Looking back on one’s life, one will find
that it is the best of all possible lives, or else it would be different …
It also means that what we refer to as patience
is a holding pattern during which we are well protected
because we are waiting for something we desperately want
but that is not really good for us.
Learning to be patient therefore also means to finally let go of our wrong ideas,
for the right ones to come our way,
even better ones than we could have probably imagined …
We do not know all the cards in the deck that is our life,
but we always radiate certain cards with our ideas,
yet these are our thoughts and not our actual essence.
Our actual essence shines brightest when we let go,
the pure essence of ourselves,
without the turbulences of thoughts that can be measured by electrical devices.
“When I was no longer interested in it, it suddenly happened;”
what? All that
I have ever dreamt of, and better and more, and purer,
and finer, and more precise, and more unimaginable, and more loving,
and more optimal, so, rather unbelievable, really.