of these strategies, recall the practice perspectives we explored earlier in this chapter. Be sure to have the long view in mind, do not forget to enjoy the journey, remember to use your compass to stay focused on your True North, and be sure to leverage serendipity. For example, you might say if you write about your desire to have more leadership responsibility in your annual evaluation that your current supervisor will see this as a threat. First, my condolences for having a supervisor with this view, but beyond that recognize that this individual is a point in time in your journey and there are other strategies to pursue in your development. While you will encounter obstacles in your leadership journey, your practice perspectives make it possible to pivot around just such a barrier. We know because we have taken the long view that our tenacious nature will help to overcome each challenge that is encountered.
Find a Mentor
Early on in my career I quickly realized that there was much to learn from more senior leaders within my nonprofit organization. Some of this learning came naturally by observing their approach and style to any number of situations. I learned from their example both what to do and, at times, what not to do. Often my direct supervisor served as a source of leadership development, particularly when I had a supervisor who had leadership strengths. This was ideal because meetings were regularly scheduled and included discussions about various situations that had arisen between meeting times. There were times, though, when my direct supervisor was not someone I felt I could learn from. In these instances, I felt their skills as a leader were lacking. These were the instances where I would typically learn what not to do. A reverse role model, if you will.
When I found myself in this predicament, I realized that I would have to seek support for my developmental leadership journey from someone other than my direct supervisor. It was not too difficult to look around the organization or even outside of the agency to find someone with the skills and expertise in leadership that I could respect. The key was to be intentional about this effort to pursue a mentor who could support my development. There is always a risk that you could become complacent by resigning yourself to the fact that you have a difficult situation with a supervisor, and rather than pursue an external mentor and coach, settle into feeling stuck. Better to be intentional and avoid the cul‐de‐sac of complacency as you work to develop your leadership capability.
I have heard and experienced the idea as well that mentees choose their mentor. If you are to have a mentor, and you should, set about intentionally developing a professional relationship with a colleague or associate whom you respect. In time this respect can form the foundation for building a relationship of trust, support, and learning that in the best of worlds will become reciprocal over time.
The positive impact associated with a true mentor relationship is well documented. Ayoobzadeh and Boies (2020), for example, researched the impact of mentors and found that successful mentor relationships helped to increase positive outcomes for the participants. Now notice that the key term here is successful mentor relationship. It is not enough to simply participate in a structured mentor program within your organization and assume that the mentor/mentee relationship will be defined as successful. There are many variables that come into play when we pursue a successful mentor relationship—not the least of which revolves around the way in which the organization's culture supports the development of mentorships (Johnson & Smith, 2019).
Considerations include whether there is mutually shared respect between the mentor and the mentee. The mentor must be perceived by the mentee as having the skills necessary to play the role in a positive way and even beyond that it is critical that the mentor have the skill set necessary to fulfill the role of mentor. And even if these pieces are in place it's essential that the mentor and the mentee have a willingness to develop and sustain a supportive relationship All these variables and more are at play in the development of a successful mentor relationship.
It might be that your pursuit of a mentor will move you beyond the single mentor/mentee relationship to consider having multiple mentor relationships, where you can draw support and guidance from several individuals in your network of relationships. No matter the form, be sure to develop a mentor/mentee relationship. Be intentional in this area as the rewards for your leadership development will be significant.
Sharpen Your Saw
There is an old proverb about a man who was working furiously to saw down a tree. A farmer passing by could not help but notice the man, who was covered head to toe in sweat and nearing collapse. The farmer asked the man how long he had been at the task of sawing down the tree. The man replied that he had been on the job for hours and thought that the tree must be the hardest of wood. As the farmer leaned in, he saw that the teeth on the saw were dull and nearly undetectable. “Maybe you should sharpen your saw,” the farmer commented. The man looked dumbfounded as he had only considered how remarkably hard the wood was on this tree, not the state of his saw.
Leadership tools, like any tool, require sharpening. You may have developed a complete toolbox for your leadership practice, but have you taken the time to ensure that your tools are well maintained? If not, you will find yourself like the gentleman in the proverb, working all day to no avail.
Sharpening your saw from a leadership perspective can involve a wide array of activities. Attending trainings is one way to fine‐tune your capacity to use your leadership practice tools. Reading and exposing yourself to emergent ideas as well as tried‐and‐true notions of effective leadership practice can also serve as an important source for sharpening your proverbial saw. Find a community to talk about leadership and take time to read about leadership practice. There are any number of leadership groups and forums that exist on multiple platforms—LinkedIn, for example—as well as various leadership associations, such as ILA, the International Leadership Association. Be active and pursue membership in these forums so that you ensure that your leadership development is something that is ongoing.
You can also pursue more informal ways to develop your leadership practice. For example, I have a group of colleagues who meet monthly to share ideas about leadership and management practice. This group has become invaluable and serves a function that is helpful well beyond our monthly meetings by making it possible to reach out and connect about specific challenges between meetings.
Another way to sharpen your saw is to develop your ability to be mindful and fully present in your leadership practice. Mindfulness practice has become an important habit for many successful leaders. We are busy within our culture, constantly going somewhere and always doing something. Taking time to slow down, stop, and be in the moment helps you to build your capacity to be reflective. If you can calm the noise in your head that is created by our frenetic pace, then you will be better able to exercise leadership practice that supports your efforts. In the Appendix of this book, you will find five mindfulness practices that are both easy and simple to practice. My go‐to mindfulness practice from this list is mindful breathing. It is an activity that I can do in just a few minutes, sitting at my desk or just before I enter a meeting, that helps to enhance my mindfulness and ultimately my effectiveness.
You might feel that you do not have time to pursue a mindfulness practice or that you do not see why this would be important. It is important to understand that research has shown the efficacy of mindfulness. Chin et al. (2019), for example, underscore how mindfulness is associated with stress reduction. Similarly, Bell's (2015) research shows that people who are more mindful have better physical and mental health, including less anxiety and lower blood pressure. Each of the findings here underscore how mindfulness can help you build your leadership capability. The importance of mindfulness in leadership is also underscored by the work of Tohme and Joseph (2020), whose research identified a positive correlation between authenticity, mindfulness, and emotional intelligence.
Taken together these activities can help to ensure that you continually refine your ability to make wise use of your leadership toolbox. Do not be caught working yourself to death with dull tools. Work intentionally to enhance your leadership practice at every turn. I am confident that you will find the various activities associated with sharpening your leadership practice to be enjoyable as well as rewarding.