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      Это тон… (фр.) – Примеч. ред.

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      Newberg A.B. & Waltman M.R. (2014). Words can change your brain. Penguin.

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      На данный момент перевод книги на русский язык отсутствует, на английском ее название звучит как You Have More Influence Than You Think. – Примеч. ред.

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