You Can Be Happy No Matter What. Richard Carlson

existing beliefs to prove yourself right, even at the expense of making yourself miserable.

      But if you understand the nature of thought systems, you can begin to see beyond them, and sense the value in other points of view. What we used to interpret as criticism we now see merely as an opinion from another person with his or her own thought system. We can virtually eliminate unprofitable arguments in our lives and can completely eliminate feeling resentful, confused, or angry at others who don’t see things our way. In fact, when we understand the stubborn nature of thought systems, we will expect others not to see things our way.

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