nonmonogamist to be themselves—all in peace with prosperity. It promotes truth to arise while assisting the woman or women through their journey.
Our Creator wants us to love and live in paradise. Furthermore, our Creator owns everything (Psalm 24:1), and I have learned that my blessings are derived directly from our faith in the Creator and the discipline of self (as we are co-Creators of our world). We must learn that our strengths and belief systems are based on what is righteous, prosperous, and spiritual. We need to take advantage of the wisdom we have at our fingertips by being truthful with ourselves and getting back to our roots. This book will help you get back there and move beyond; allow my spiritual teachers and I to show you how.
So You Want Seven Wives? will provide both men and women with a simple approach to lead you into truth. Learn to come to a place of selflessness and love in all you say, think, feel, and do in your multiple-relationship development (MRD). We, women, love you, men. Help us to love you and love us back; allow us to nourish you as we are also nourished.
Women! I have learned that men come around to righteousness quicker and in balance if you feed them with knowledge, pray for them, and let them be. No man wants to constantly hear about his shortcomings or failures. Lift him up! The better he is, the better off you are.
A man’s connection with the Creator will repair his relationships as he understands and grows. Women, if you are righteous, men will find their way to you. All existence will stand still, and all moments will come to you. Men will listen to you, cherish you, and love you the way the Creator loves us all.
Men, love your one, two, three, four, five, six, or seven wives! Wife or seven wives, love your man! Peace and Blessings!
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Chapter 1
The Necessity
The Necessary Involvement
Join me on a journey through relationships filled with spirituality, honesty, and dedication. An individual may define their desire for a relationship, as monogamous or polygamous, and this desire might be conscious or subconscious. Whatever your desire, remember love is the foundation, and treat the situation with love. Some may consider polygamy or a relationship with more than one mate an environment of mockery. However, how many can honestly say that their relationship(s) has been completely monogamous? Nevertheless, such a situation only stands the chance of becoming a mockery only if those involved lack knowledge, understanding, and the guidance to implement it properly. Furthermore, unity must be present in a multiple relationship situation in order for it to be prosperous; it must be guided by God’s love and blessings.
Until now, there has been little to no discussion about multiple-relationship development in America, in our hearts, and further, on how to use it for personal development. Multiple-relationship development (MRD) needs to be understood with faith, guidance, love, and unity. It may not be a way of life for all, but those that are in this type of relationship must make the best of it by making a decree of order.
First, each person must step out of the denial that another woman or other women exist. This denial is the lack of truth concerning multiple women. Men stop hiding this fact and women stop denying it. An introduction to structure and organization will bring forth a movement toward multiple-relationship development (MRD) that has never been seen. To falter with not admitting the denial would be to exhibit a continuous lie in current and new relationships. I do not present this information with a specific religion in mind. I offer this knowledge through the essence of spirituality; your connection with a positive energy force that protects you from day to day. The Omnipresent, which you may refer to as Yhwh, Yah, God, Jehovah, the Most High, Allah, the Creator, Haile Selassie, the Lord, Ja, Father, Buddha, etc. We are all of one spirit. There is no separation, only that within our minds. Being that the mind and soul are connected makes it more of a reason to bridge the division.
My personal experience begins on the 385th day of what I thought to be both the start and end of my relationships. A getaway to a local five-star hotel brought my lover and I more than just peace of mind. It pulled me into his life and lit my life with excitement. After an evening of unimaginable intimacy and romance, I woke up the next morning to him asking me to marry him. Shocked, stunned, and surprised, I fainted and woke up in his arms. My emotions were beyond passionate; it was multidimensional, momentum from within.
The planning of our wedding day wasn’t an easy task. He was rasta and I am simply spiritual. Honorably noting the faith of Jesus (Yahoshua/Yeshua), the aboriginal and indigenous birthright of the Moors, the authentication of the Hebrews, the discipline of Muslims, the love and understanding of Buddhism, the free spirit and natural beliefs of Rastas, the peaceful prayers of Catholicism, the nonjudgmental character of the nondenominational, simply put “the unity of all righteous beliefs.” Yeah, that’s me. Over time, as we moved through our relationship, and despite my adjustments to his beliefs, he showed signs of distrust, and my spirit grew weary. This was the man I was to spend my life with, monogamously.
One bright sunny day, I innately had a strong feeling I was sharing this man with others. I followed my instinct, and I stopped by his home. To no avail, I discovered another woman with him. I imagine he saw and/or sensed me coming. He hid in the bathroom until she and I talked for a while. She told me her story. I told her mine. Her story included his child that she was carrying.
He finally came out of the bathroom, and I asked him if it was true. He nodded. He was busted. In that moment, I knew nothing else except to “go off.” You know the typical—flatting of the tires, ripping the car tag off, and throwing it away (not so typical), etc. Of course, my immaturity level had set in, and these were definitely not thoughts of a conscious-minded person. Aside from my immaturity and misleading understanding, this was a situation that did not have to be if we had a mutual understanding about our relationship from the beginning.
Subsequently, I became very depressed and secluded. It was hard to show up at work, deal with friends and just to be happy. During my depression, my husband-to-be, whom I’ll call Rasta Man, spoke the truth. He believed in multiple mates for many reasons, such as reproduction, togetherness, and for hopes of righteous doings in life abundantly. Knowing his beliefs made me feel better. I no longer perceived his deception as mischief or destruction. It had a new meaning and gave me a new understanding, new insight. I said to him, “If you’re going to have multiple mates, do it with dignity and love. Most importantly allow a flow of balance within the four bodies of spirit, mental, emotional, and physical. Let the Holy Spirit guide you. Why not have organization with what you are already implementing?”
He asked me to join him and help his evolution toward what I now refer to as a multiple-relationship development. Being a natural, spiritual healer, he knew I would be an asset. I would help keep the experience healthy, grounded, and full of faith. After some thought, I realized he was in need of training, knowledge and a belief system that would allow him to be free—free to give, to love, and to develop honesty within himself. After all that I had been through with him, it wasn’t the direction my spirit was calling for. Although he possessed some of the power, it wasn’t the right time, at least not for me.
This experience opened my eyes in ways I never imagined. It made sense to me that a man is capable of having many wives. I realized it was about growth, unity, and, of course, love for a man—a love to help him to be the best he can be, as he does the same for me. And since then, a dear friend of mine who wishes to remain anonymous and considered a consultant for So You Want Seven Wives?, pointed out scripture to confirm my intuition.
Isaiah 4:1 states, “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, ‘We will eat our own food and wear our own apparel; only let us be called by your name, to take away our reproach [emphasis mine].’”
It is the man’s duty in Christ to take away the sin in the relationships,” said my anonymous consultant. This meant that man must have an intimate relationship with God in order to tap into all the strengths he has—for him to obtain, to manage, and to grow his relationship or multiple-relationship development. Unfortunately, I did not see this in Rasta Man. I was reminded of Exodus 21:10–11, which states that if the man does not provide for his wives, the woman is